新葡京2466 新葡新京 直到读了瓦伦蒂这本《2466com正面全裸的女权主义》,认为市场和生活中的遇到的挫折与问题

直到读了瓦伦蒂这本《2466com正面全裸的女权主义》,认为市场和生活中的遇到的挫折与问题

女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)我一直以为,女权主义者都是些身穿男性西装剪着男人发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂这本《正面全裸的女权主义》。现在才明白过来,原来女权主义者也是有七情六欲的!不仅如此,她们的欲望比普通女性更直白,更强势,更利己。瓦伦蒂用了整整一个章节来阐述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更擅长干那事(以及其它关于性的提示)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTER (AND OTHER SEX
TIPS)》。她开宗明义就自我标榜“我在床上比你行,而这得归功于女权主义。”(I’m
better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for
it.)现代男权社会对女人有一种自相矛盾的双重标准:一方面,女人在白天接受“守贞教育”,晚上则在电视上看到“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被教导说婚前性行为是不对的,另一方面又告诉你,你若想成为一名春假辣妹,你赶紧对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the
camera.)守贞教育家是这么来教育女孩子的:“你们的身体就是一根棒棒糖。当你们与男人发生性关系时,他剥去你的糖衣,含吮起来。当时可能感觉不错,可遗憾的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一位伴侣的就是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残渣。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.
“)够耸人听闻的。不过女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提出的口号是:“我的处女膜我做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves
)”她说:“我从未闹明白处女贞操有什么大不了,真的。我的贞操在中学时代就被一名男朋友没怎么费劲就夺去了。我们后来还约会了好几年呢。我还以为会有什么异样的感觉呢,没有。我总觉得这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉一回事很愚蠢。所以你可以想象,当我发现自己原来是被用过即弃的垃圾时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash without
it.)我比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是鄙夷男人的。可是在处理自己的情欲时,她们对男人的态度显然又是另一番风景。诚然,她们与男人上床,再也不是为了讨好男人,更不是为了繁衍后代,而纯粹是为了自己的愉悦。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,就是:一边做女权主义者,一边啪啪啪!(f***ing
while feminist
!)只是,面对一位性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一位小男人消受得起?

瓦伦蒂用了整整一个章节来阐述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更擅长干那事(以及其它关于性的提示)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTER (AND OTHER SEX TIPS)》。

(随着岁数和经历的增长,遇到新问题更加冷静处理)


Third is psychology. What if you are Human Resources. What if you need
select 30 best from 300 thousands graduates quickly? Maybe you have the
same solution. In order to choose the best. So if you are refused. Just
means you are not best. No discrimination. It’s just a rule. Have you
ever doubt your abilities when you are refused? It’s not excellent is
true. But we should comfort ourselves like a great friend. Not too harsh
and strict.Then we became confident to embrace discrimination. We will
be rational to deal anything. Trust ourselves. yes we can. If you
Failed.just try one more time. Like me never get best prepared speaker
in our club. But I insist on trying. Maybe in the future I will will be
the best. It doesn’t matter. Trying one more time can make me more
brave.  growth needs try one more time. Maybe you will reach your goal. 
Like yuminhong. 25 times worst loving experience. 3 times failures in
college entrance examinations. But embrace discrimination made him
entering peak university. And be the CEO of Xindongfang. We can say.
Dream it. And get it. Un

够耸人听闻的。不过女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提出的口号是:“我的处女膜我做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves )

About that Indian boy,I know him earlier than you.So it happened long
time ago.And if you don’t like Indian people ,I won’t talk with any
Indian people.It is not a big deal.I respect you.

Second is history. Elite university found great job, and non-elite
university was refused.those poor guys didn’t get great better career
path, really?  Let’s look at this picture. Ten years ago, most graduates
from 985 211 got the offer of ericson a famous international mobile
phone enterprise. It’s champagne in the international position. Like
apple today. But the other graduates not in 985.211 entered alibaba
which main business is selling shoots. Times went on. Alobaba is an
ideal company. Now all the 985 211 joined BAT, you are refused. It
doesn’t mean you are loser. You also have the chance to live better. I
remember one sentences. Nothing is so bad but might be a blessing. it’s
wisdom. So Embrace discrimination is what we can do best.

守贞教育家是这么来教育女孩子的:“你们的身体就是一根棒棒糖。当你们与男人发生性关系时,他剥去你的糖衣,含吮起来。当时可能感觉不错,可遗憾的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一位伴侣的就是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残渣。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. “)

The more I played it, the better I got at it, the less painful those
situations became, and the more rewarding the process of reflecting,
developing principles, and then getting rewards for using those
principles became.I learned to love my struggles, which I suppose is a
healthy perspective to have, like learning to love exercising (which I
haven’t managed to do yet).

I  think I do care about you very much.Otherwise I won’t explain
anything.No metter how you are feeling now,I ‘m ok with that.Actually
I don’t look forward to anything else.that is enough for me to see you
on the screen.

First is economics. Depends on the common theory of economics. All the
discrimination in recruitment is just unbalance between requirements and
supplements. It means 300 thousands.  graduates Just 30 jobs vacancies.
Its like if you show love to the goddess but be refused. It’s so common.
Goddess just only one. However your competitors are too more.

只是,面对一位性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一位小男人消受得起?

In my early years, I looked up to extraordinarily successful people,
thinking that they were successful because they were extraordinary.
After I got to know such people personally, I realized that all of
them—like me, like everyone—make mistakes, struggle with their
weaknesses, and don’t feel that they are particularly special or great.
They are no happier than the rest of us, and they struggle just as much
or more than average folks. Even after they surpass their wildest
dreams, they still experience more struggle than glory. This has
certainly been true for me.

Forgive my sensitive.

I was angry. Depressed for a long time. Then I found It was so common in
any recruitment information. We were refused Again and again. The Human
Resources said. We need have a famous university education background.
985 211 postgraduate or doctors.  They said. You never met female
engineers. All right? So sorry.they also said we dont need male nurse.
So sorry. Too fat. So ugly of your resume. We need long leg.all the bias
keep some excellent person out the door. Then they are depressed and not
confident even they begin to doubt their abilities.ba afraid of trying
one more time. Did you have the same feelings before?

现在才明白过来,原来女权主义者也是有七情六欲的!不仅如此,她们的欲望比普通女性更直白,更强势,更利己。

But when I ran into ones I hadn’t seen before, I would be painfully
surprised. Studying all those painful first-time encounters, I learned
that even if they hadn’t happened to me, most of them had happened to
other people in other times and places, which gave me a healthy respect
for history, a hunger to have a universal understanding of how reality
works, and the desire to build timeless and universal principles for
dealing with it.


I did some research to persuade myself. Then I found It’s no need to
have these negative feelings. Be refused by Discrimination is a common
thing. If we embrace discrimination. We’ll live better. i will share
with you three books.

”她说:“我从未闹明白处女贞操有什么大不了,真的。我的贞操在中学时代就被一名男朋友没怎么费劲就夺去了。我们后来还约会了好几年呢。我还以为会有什么异样的感觉呢,没有。我总觉得这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉一回事很愚蠢。所以你可以想象,当我发现自己原来是被用过即弃的垃圾(或棒棒糖)时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

While I surpassed my wildest dreams decades ago, I am still struggling
today.In time, I realized that the satisfaction of success doesn’t come
from achieving your goals, but from struggling well.To understand what I
mean, imagine your greatest goal, whatever it is—making a ton of money,
winning an Academy Award, running a great organization, being great at a
sport. Now imagine instantaneously achieving it.

After that,I kept making myself to live happily.My situation got better
than before.My ex boyfriend is stimulus and could easily stimulate
me .
He seemed to be deliberately reminding me of his existence.
Everytime I was almost going to forget that painful memories about him
and to start a new life ,and I almost made it,he always contact me ,at
intervals. After his contaction,the depression would break out.Although
I wouldn’t want to suicide anymore,but depression is a torture.It
makes my life like a mess.I talked less,eat less ,sleep less and shut
myself in the room feeling that having no love for life.And always
forget things
.I am not hoping you could understand the situation ,if
you have never gone through it.

Dear fellow toaster masters. How many times your resume was rejected?
What’s the main reason? Several months ago. After paying my tmc fees. I
have no money to buy something on November 11. my poor pockets. And  So
i made a big decision. Change the job. Then i refreshed resume. Borrowed
technical books. One day i Received an interview call. The lady said. Do
you want to change your job? I said. Yes. Can you tell me your excepted
salary? So open. I like. You must know the standards. So you made. When
i heart the salary i wes suprised. Then pretend so calm to answer any
questions. In the end. He Said: last but not least. When will you want a
baby? So straight. I don’t like now. Maybe this year. Then we close this
interview conversation as soon as possible. after that. All the
interviews were interrupted by the same question.

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